This Place is about to blow.......
I pride myself on working quickly and efficiently through stress. I got even better at it after meeting Matt, he is such an encouragement , always supportive and can make me slow down and really look at a situation. I tend to be a " I can do it better so I'll just do it myself" personality but he has really helped me understand that sometimes that isn't the best approach. Its never easy to hear but the way he approaches me and talks to me is so gentle , I can't help but listen and then realize he's right...SOMETIMES lol.
The wedding planning process has been relatively stress free. Even the points that have been stressful are still going to be worth it in the end. I wouldn't trade any of this for something else. I'm slighty over people saying to me " Don't you wish you would of eloped " or " well maybe this big fancy wedding isn't such a good idea after all"..... To Matt and I it is. So please , if you have an opinion, blog about it. I try my hardest to not knock other peoples ideas of weddings , or non weddings. We aren't focusing on the " wedding" ...we are focusing on the marriage and this celebration kicks off our life as man and wife.
Are things stressful ? Not until this week lol but that is life , and how we handle stress speaks volumes on how we will handle our marriage. Last night yet another piece of crap hit the fan , our sink started leaking and flooding into the cabinet below..... now normal Ljo would of cried but honestly we just kinda chuckled and cleaned it up. Even today , I've failed at everything I've put my hand to since 9am....I had a good 30 minutes when I wanted to loose my mind but my wonderful fiance reminded me to slow down , say a little prayer and not sweat the small stuff. I don't care what happens from now till November 12 at 3:59.....because that day I walk a walk I've dreamed about since I was a little girl.... I walk down the aisle to the man God created for me and nothing can be-little that. Yes this place may blow before than but really , how many more things can break ? :)
The wedding planning process has been relatively stress free. Even the points that have been stressful are still going to be worth it in the end. I wouldn't trade any of this for something else. I'm slighty over people saying to me " Don't you wish you would of eloped " or " well maybe this big fancy wedding isn't such a good idea after all"..... To Matt and I it is. So please , if you have an opinion, blog about it. I try my hardest to not knock other peoples ideas of weddings , or non weddings. We aren't focusing on the " wedding" ...we are focusing on the marriage and this celebration kicks off our life as man and wife.
Are things stressful ? Not until this week lol but that is life , and how we handle stress speaks volumes on how we will handle our marriage. Last night yet another piece of crap hit the fan , our sink started leaking and flooding into the cabinet below..... now normal Ljo would of cried but honestly we just kinda chuckled and cleaned it up. Even today , I've failed at everything I've put my hand to since 9am....I had a good 30 minutes when I wanted to loose my mind but my wonderful fiance reminded me to slow down , say a little prayer and not sweat the small stuff. I don't care what happens from now till November 12 at 3:59.....because that day I walk a walk I've dreamed about since I was a little girl.... I walk down the aisle to the man God created for me and nothing can be-little that. Yes this place may blow before than but really , how many more things can break ? :)
Who says something like that?! You both deserve to have it your way because it's YOUR wedding! You are going to have great memories to look back on and cherish from this experience. Cheesy quote of the day: People only rain on your parade when they're jealous of your sun and tired of their shade! ;D
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